The Silver Tsunami: How Real Estate Agents Can Earn Baby Boomer Business Through Networking

There's a major source of business coming for real estate agents that a lot of people aren't planning for. It's called the silver tsunami.

The silver tsunami is the baby boomer generation. They're aging, retiring, and in many cases staying in their homes longer. Over the next several years, they and their families will be making big decisions about what to do with their homes, their rentals, and their commercial properties. Sell, pass them down, move to a 55 and over community, independent living, or assisted living.

On a recent Tuesday training, Mike Pillow from our team and Scott, an agent from San Antonio, joined me to talk about how to earn that business. My answer is networking. It's how I built my business in the early years, and I was a longtime member of BNI.

Why networking beats advertising for this generation

You can go straight to consumers and talk to as many prospects as possible. You can advertise and hope they call. But this generation doesn't want to be sold, and a lot of them aren't responding to your ads.

A better approach is to build relationships with the gatekeepers, the people boomers already trust, so that when a real estate question comes up, they recommend you.

Gatekeeper 1: 55 and over and independent living communities

Picture the person who handles admissions, leasing, or sales at a 55 and over community. They're talking every week with people who are about to move. Many of those people say something like, "We'd love to come here, but we have a big house to sell first."

Imagine if your card was the one that came out of their pocket.

That won't happen because you brought donuts once. It happens because you give value. These folks are experts on their community, not on real estate. When residents ask them how to get ready to sell, who helps with decluttering, or who can sell their belongings, many of them just say, "Look on Google."

Be the answer instead. Put together a short, branded resource guide they can hand out or email: decluttering and downsizing help, estate sale and liquidation companies, movers. Bring it with the donuts. Then you're the first person they think of.

Mike Pillow pointed out that in rural areas, this goes further. When he sold a farm, his clients weren't holding a garage sale. They needed help setting up an auction for large farm equipment. Knowing who to call for that is exactly the kind of value that sets you apart.

Be Google for your clients

I once heard a speaker say we have to be Google for our clients. If they're searching online for these resources, we've already lost.

Keep your resources in your phone, on a printed list, in a simple guide, or in blog posts. The format matters less than being the person who has the answer.

Gatekeeper 2: Estate, probate, and divorce attorneys

Estate and probate attorneys are helping boomers figure out what to do with everything they own. Trusts, liquidating assets, passing property to heirs. When a client asks, "Who should I talk to about selling this property?", you want to be on that attorney's short list.

Attorneys aren't easy to get in with. They're highly educated and driven, and some look at agents as less knowledgeable. As Mike Pillow has heard, many also say, "I already work with several realtors. What makes you different?" But we know things they don't, and that's where our value comes from.

In the last three months, I've gotten two referrals from attorneys who do this kind of work. One came from an estate attorney I've known for years who was helping with a divorce. He sent it to me because over the years I've solved problems for him. Divorce attorneys can be great referral sources too, and you can help their clients at a hard time.

What earned the second referral

The second one is more instructive, because I hadn't known this attorney long. She came to me because she knew I had a Rolodex of resources. She needed a handyman, a cleaner, and someone who understood how an estate sale works.

Two things made the difference.

1. I filled out the paperwork correctly the first time. The listing documents were in the estate's name, with the attorney signing as administrator. The last thing an attorney wants is to teach you how their paperwork works.
2. I brought the solution before she asked. I'd learned that in some estate situations, the seller may be exempt from completing the property disclosure form. So I sent her both the disclosure and the exemption form and said, "You're the attorney. Pick the one you want." She chose the exemption form.

Educate yourself on how estates work. Attorneys want someone who can step in and swing the bat, not someone they have to train.

Interview the attorney

If I were an agent starting this kind of networking today, I'd interview attorneys. Something like: "I'd love 15 or 20 minutes to learn more about your practice. I meet a lot of people, and I may be able to send you referrals."

It's how I got a job 25 years ago. I called construction companies and asked to come in and learn about them. What do you do? Who do you hire? What skills matter to you?

With an attorney, ask what they struggle with when real estate is involved. When do they end up searching Google because a client asked for help with something? Solve those problems and you become valuable.

Gatekeeper 3: Local businesses and the people who help people stay home

Boomers want to stay in their homes longer. I have a contractor who specializes in adapting homes for that: moving laundry from the basement to the first floor, adding grab bars, and more. If you're the one who connected someone with that contractor, and you've stayed in touch for two or five years before they need to move, who do you think they'll call?

Mike Pillow keeps his name on as many refrigerators as possible with kitchen conversion magnets. He also takes local football guides around to businesses. The hardware store, the paint store, and even the marina near him refer business his way. People visit the paint store when they're fixing up a home, which is often right before they sell. People sell their boat when they're thinking about moving. It's one thing to have your card by the register. It's another when the person behind the counter says, "Call this guy. He knows his stuff."

Don't forget clubs, churches, and community groups either. Mike Pillow has gotten listings from people he met volunteering with a local youth program.

Tell the story online too

More and more people search Google or ChatGPT, read the AI answer, and click nothing. That's called a zero-click search. So be the source those answers pull from.

If someone searches for how to handle selling an estate property, your blog post about a real sale, where you connected the family with an auctioneer, a handyman, and a cleaner and helped the attorney with the paperwork, is exactly the kind of high-value content that ranks on Google and in AI results.

And remember, this isn't just residential. Some of the smartest investors in the country are boomers who bought apartment buildings and commercial properties. They'll need help with those decisions too. Build the roster of people who can help them, and you'll be the one they call.

If you're an agent who wants to learn more about how our team works, email me at mike@21mike.com.

Want to see the full session? Watch our Tuesday training on the silver tsunami.

Mike Ferrante
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